Elemental partnership

I could feel the speaker getting wet from the tears down Faith's cheeks over the phone.

Faith: I thought he was the one
Me: Faith baby, what did I tell you your personal element is?
F: Water
M: Whats your "one's" element?
F: Water
M Faith baby, your "one" should be someone really compatible in a more democratic relationship. Not the one you were in with that jerk. He is probably of the earth element. Your destroyer! ahahahh (that was maybe an inappropriate joke)
F: So how can I find him?
M: Faith baby, I'm not a matchmaker
F: Why you never told me this about democracy before?!
M: Faith baboon, I did. You never pay attention, you monkey!

Everyone has a personal element. It can be found by refering to the day you were born in 8 character analysis. In your 8 characters, you can find the element of your marriage partner. I assume that the marraige partner is the "one" unless you like to stock up on divorces and awe at your own accomplishments.

In the case of Faith, her "one's" element is similar to her self element. That means that he will be one who is very similar to her personality and will provide emotional support. Their relationship will have many "friend" qualities. (this is not redundant bullshit. many of us do not have "friend" relationship qualities with our partners) Because of this, there is a high chance that she will run into him as or through a friend or competitor.

In this case, her "one" would probably have water self element as well so that it tallies with her's. 2 complex formulas make a beautiful equation.

However the "one" may or may not be benificial to anyone. This is dependant of the strength of the self element. This is why sometimes, a great lover is describe as a "jinx". Its because the "one" is not favourable to the 8 characters.

So instead of marrying a "jinx", you marry a jerk.